Mixed reactions have started pouring in after popular Nigerian singer Paul Okoye and his girlfriend Ivy Ifeoma for the first time share contrary opinions about what men want in relationship.
In February 2023, singer Paul Okoye also known as Rudeboy after divorcing his wife, Anita disclosed that a woman who is well trained and disciplined supposed to respect her man noting that men most of the times cherish respect even more than the so called love.
Paul Okoye wrote; “For men…sometimes is not all about love. Respect…is all that matters!!!.”
She noted that men like to keep demanding for respect as if their lives depend on it stating that respect is earned. She further tells men to stop acting like dog rather they should treat others with respect as well.
Ivy Ifeoma wrote; “Men don’t need love, all they need is respect”
She added; “These are two different things, bro If that’s all you need, what’s the difference between your partner and any random person. ’cause anyone can respect you… But there’s respect in love too, And those men that keep demanding respect up and down like their lives depend on it, hope you know it’s earned? Stop acting like a dog and treat others with respect too.”
She Ivy post below (swipe to view);
See reactions below;
iamcollinsb5: In relationship or marriage respect is not earned your man deserve respect. If respect is earned then love he shower you should also be earned too. Can you do everything to earn a man’s love? No when we love we don’t breakup easily we fix it rather.
official_cherishmatur: Breakfast is that u😂😂 una pepper us
jasmine_precious: Billionaire e sha cash è, it’s too early o.
mimiogueri_: Tbvh, respect normally shouldn’t be earned, u respect cos u are trained and disciplined and know that everyone deserves to be respected, if respect is earned that means u will wait for ur elder to greet u first b4 they earn I greeting them, u respect ur man cos that’s they way it should be but that doesn’t give anyone the right to disrespect u, when u feel disrespected on the other hand, u let him know u are not a fool… no matter how we want to hide under the shell, truth still remains that men prefer respect to this our so called love, they shaa love peace of mind more than anything cos they load wey de carry too much😂.
me_ta_na: Omo….confusion sat me now and said Today u must be confused….because everything I just Dey see online today Dey confuse me.
poshprincess55: 😂😂what your fellow woman saw and ran😂😂😂 nobody throws away gold😂.
diamond_queen_b: Na only men dey think before going to bed, women dey think what to prepare, yhis and that even some be the bread winner so no dey whine urself, Mr thinker.
big_zaza77: The love still dey sweet them 😂 make we give them small time 😮😂 we go hear #gistlover with hello tueh tueh 😂.