Dear Ladies, Don’t Ever Be In A Hurry To Tell Any Man These Five Important Things

There are ways of telling a man your past. For instance, if you love a man and you have had several persons in your life previously. You should not tell him you have dated 10 men in the past, you can politely tell him that he is not the first man in your life. This will prevent him from seeing you as a whore.

 

 

2. Another deep secret you shouldn’t tell a man is your family background whether rich or poor. So many girls have made this mistake and have regretted their actions. Your family matters should be kept private else your lover is clicking for marriage.

You should limit what you tell him about your family until few days before the marriage ceremony. This will help you in preventing him from using your family background against you.

 

 

3. Don’t be in a hurry to tell him what you are doing for a living. Some guys are there for your money, not the real you. Being in a hurry to tell him what you do for a living makes it easy for him to deceive you.

You can tell him about your job after being with him for a very long time. If he is too inquisitive to know about your job. You should know he is targeting something from you.

 

 

4. Another thing you should not tell him in a hurry is what other people are saying about him. If people around you are not comfortable with him. You should try to find out why rather than being in a hurry to tell him.

This will help you to know the type of man he is and if you will be able to cope with him as your partner. Telling him about what other people are saying about him will make him hide some of his negative attitudes and character. And this will make it hard for you to know his real personality. Telling him this may also cause him to quarrel with people around you, especially your family and friends.

 

 

5. My dear, you shouldn’t be in a hurry to tell him your dark sides. So many girls have put themselves in trouble, some have even lost their lives due to this.

Before you tell someone about your dark secret you should know how important you are to that person. I strongly advise you to only tell your husband about this. Change is constant, telling your boyfriend about this doesn’t guarantee that he will stay with you forever. Telling about your dark side too quickly may scare him away.

 

 

You should only tell him before marriage when you know that he may not be able to handle it or stay with you if he finds out.

This is for the good of all women. Don’t be too quick in telling people things that may hurt you or hurt them. If you want to be with the right man, you shouldn’t be in a hurry to tell men the mentioned above things.