Some women experience distress after making love. In fact, the feeling is so intense that many even report crying.
If you can relate to this situation and have been thinking that you’re alone in feeling this way, we’re here to tell you that this is actually a fairly common emotion after making love. Science even has a term for it which is Postcoital Dysphoria (PCD).
According to the International Society for Sexual Medicine, some women experience a rush of emotions right after making love due to which they tend to cry.
There have been situations where women become aggressive and get into an argument with their partner. The problem is that most women are not aware of the root cause of these emotions.
Sometimes, the intense lights up the entire brain at once. This triggers all kinds of emotions. Crying is actually a way to relax. Hence, this is your body’s immediate response to calm you down, explains clinical psychologist, Dr Bhavna Barmi.
She added, “Apart from pain, there are many other reasons that lead to crying post-sex or PCD.”
Here are 5 reasons that can cause post-sex blues:
1. A lack of post-sex cuddling
Yes, we need that after love making cuddling session. According to Dr Barmi, things like post-sex pillow talk or cuddling makes one feel needed. Hence, it contributes to emotional satisfaction
On the other hand, not receiving any physical contact after love making might make you feel neglected. It contributes to creating a sense of vulnerability which ends up making you feel overwhelmed.
2. Shame or guilt
Sexual assault often leaves a lasting impression on your psychology. At times, a sexual encounter takes you back to that moment of trauma. Moreover, your own ideas about the taboo around sex could result in feelings of shame or guilt.
“Body image issues are another concern that leads to postcoital dysphoria and women feel a sense of shame”, she says.
3. Happiness
“After a dry spell, the sudden release of built-up sexual energy could certainly bring someone to tears of joy”, she explained.
4. Postpartum depression
Women going through postpartum depression experience hormonal fluctuations. Making love during that time might elate these emotions, resulting in one feeling overwhelmed which could lead to crying after making love.
“The rate of PCD is higher in women during postpartum depression. If it is a recurring problem, one must consider consulting an expert”, she suggests.
5. Performance anxiety
Just like men, women also go through performance anxiety. If something doesn’t go as per plan, it can induce stress. The immediate reaction to stress is crying.
So, you’re not alone! Don’t blame yourself for feeling this way. Talk to your partner and seek comfort for better emotional well-being.
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