‘Never Threaten Your Partner With Breakup Unless You Mean It’ – Kenneth Okonkwo

Legendary Nigerian actor and lawyer, Kenneth Okonkwo has dished out some instructive piece of advice to young men and women regarding relationships.

In a recent post he made on social media, Kenneth Okonkwo warned youngsters not to threaten their partners with break up unless they really are serious about.

According to the veteran script-interpreter, there is no perfect relationship adding that the key to a lasting relationship is effective communication with your spouse.

“No matter how upset you are, don’t threaten your partner with a break up unless you mean it. Focus your anger on what they’ve done without bringing up the threat of a break up. No relationship is without its ups and downs. Don’t let anyone deceive you.

You will quarrel and you will fight. You will have sad days; you will disagree some days and not find a common ground over some issues. Compromises don’t always happen. These are normal things in a healthy relationship.

The key to a lasting relationship is being with someone you can actually communicate your feelings to and have a solutions-based approach towards conversations; someone who doesn’t just communicates, but reciprocates the energy you give to them. Someone who always bares their mind and accumulate pent-up anger. Someone who forgives easily and reverts to their default factory mode of playing and laughing. This is the key.”

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