Relationship expert Blessing Okoro has shared some tips on how a woman can make a man marry them even when they aren’t ready for the marriage.
The counselor and relationship expert took to her official Facebook page to share some relationship tips with women dating and ready for marriage.
According to Blessing, a lot of women are dating boys and not men. “There is a difference between a boy and a man. Many of you are dating boys,” she said. She emphasized that women should make sure they are in a relationship with men and not boys.
Blessing described ‘boys’ as young male children with manhood who are not in any way ready to carry responsibilities”. She however described a ‘man’ as “a futuristic person who is willing and ready to carry responsibilities”.
According to the relationship expert, a lot of men do not want to get married not because they are ready but they aren’t sure.
“The reason why many men do not marry you ladies is that they are not certain of what they want. There’s always a reason”. Blessing emphasized that men do not marry their girlfriends because they get everything from ladies while dating them.
“You cook for them, give birth. Why would they want to marry you? Everything in a relationship, you give it for free so what do you think would fascinate them to marry you. what else can you give”.
Blessing has advised women to stop giving so much in a relationship if they want the men to marry them.