According to the man identified as Lola Okunrin, on the night of January 1st, 2021 at about 9:30pm, when he was coming back, she approached him to take her to Ikorodu, though he initially hesitated because he had had a stressful day, he eventually agreed.
He revealed that she opened up about how her husband beat her with his fists and objects and threatened to kill her if she is still around when he returns.
So, after Mr Lola agreed to take her, she packed her things and they left around 10:30pm, they drove a far distance and during the ride, she revealed that her husband sleeps around and does not hide to do it.
According to Mr Lola, the husband started bringing different girls home, but what shocked him the most however, was when the woman he saved and who had vowed never to go back to her abusive man returned after two weeks and said she is back to her husband.
In his words:
‘‘Some men are beasts while some women also deserve no pity!!!
”She quickly rushed towards me that is it possible I take her to Ikorodu that night? I was like Nooooo, do you want to kill me. Apparently, I really drove around ikorodu that day from Isawo to Igbo olomu to Agbede to Igbo oluwo visiting families, so I told her i’m tired…
”She said no problem then, that she actually got someone to take her but the person is misbehaving. Since I noticed how unsettled she was, i asked why she can’t reschedule for next morning that it’s late. She said No, she must leave that night with her loads. Loads???…
”Why do you want to leave with your loads? But you and your husband moved in just 3 weeks ago, what happened? She said she’s the only one leaving but she will be coming once in a while. I sensed that to be a lie, so my final statement was “If you can’t tell me what happened…
”I sensed there’s a marital issue but she wasn’t forthcoming with the story. I don’t want a situation where I will later be seen as the wicked neighbor who broke a home. I wanted the full story. She said i shouldn’t bother about the story…
”That all she needed is for me to take her to Ikorodu. I said “NO”, then I drove in, parked and closed the gate.
Some minutes after I settled in, she came knocking but this time with a threat. Her words “Boda Ade, please come and carry me to Ikorodu, else if anything happens…
…to me, my blood will be on your neck o” whaaaaat?
”I quickly opened the door and this time, she told me what happened. She had an argument with her husband during the day and it resulted in him beating her up with belt and punches. She showed me a deep cut on her knee which…
is as a result of a punch. So before the guy left home, he told her to pack her things and leave, that he must not meet her at home, else, he will kill her.
”She brought out everything herself. The car was filled to the brim. So we set out around 10:30pm that 1st of January.
While on the way, she told me about how young their marriage is. She told me about how she lost her 10-month old daughter and for months her…
husband stopped having sex with her. She also caught him on several occasions on how he’s hitting on different girls, blue, green, yellow, any kind of girl and the painful part is that he wasn’t hiding his adulterous act, he was doing it in the open for her to see. Face with open mouth
I was angry but I didn’t give reactions. We drove drove drove drove drove drove drove inside inside inside inside inside inside Ikorodu till we got to her brother’s place with her things. Her brother and I unpacked everything while she was cursing, crying and all sorts which…
gave me the confidence that she was going to take up the case. She said nothing in this life can bring them back together. At a point, she danced that she’s free from abuses. It seems the beating has been happening for long.
Actually, I just wanna go home. It’s almost 12am abeg..
”I set out on my journey back home and alas, i got home around past 1. Even though there was curfew, I got home. Adupe.
Some days later, my neighbor started coming home with different girls. Wawu. I didn’t care, we don’t have rapport and he doesn’t even know i was the one…who moved his wife, so I didn’t care. I had inner peace.
Just yesterday night around 10pm, i heard a knock on my door, who’s that? I shouted.
The reply came in “BODA ADE, I AM BACK”
Back as how? Abi aye yin fe baje ni? She came back after all the curses and swears Crying face
She came back with all the loads just as she left after 2 weeks.
I remember telling my mum what happened then, she prayed for me that day just because i took her away risking my life at the dead of the night, only for this lady to come back.
Sincerely, i’m angry.
”Imagine something happened to me that night while coming back, is this how they will both move on? Face with open mouth
The funny part is that she will tell her husband that i’m the one who helped her move. I have to be security conscious.
I’m very angry”